Sometimes the easiest person to lose touch with is yourself.
As ironic as it seems, it is very possible to lose contact with yourself.
I can only speak from personal experience.
I’ve lost contact with myself before.
And when I say “lose contact”, I mean that you aren’t motivating yourself or living your life in a manner that is self fulfilling.
If you are not a selfish person, then it is easy to find pleasure in helping others and giving to something greater than yourself.
The problem is that sometimes we begin to give to others more than we give to ourselves.
You want to be the best mom, wife, sister, best friend or whatever you can be. So sometimes you sacrifice your own happiness for others because you love them and you do it willingly.
In the process of doing so, sometimes we forget to touch base with ourselves. How we are feeling? What are the things that will make me happy for myself?
You can find joy in everything and everyone else but at the end of the day you must find it in yourself.
People come and go and things certainly don’t last forever, but from the time your born until the time you die you will always have to deal with self.
So it’s hard when you have to deal with the fact that, despite how much joy you find in everything else, you aren’t happy with yourself.
Self esteem and self motivation are very important things to have. Nobody has got you like you!! So you have to take care of yourself as much as you do others.
I love me. I am strong. I am more than a conqueror. I am beautiful. I am smart. I am important. I am meant to do great things.
These are the things I must remind myself of daily.
Self love is the best love!
It’s time to love myself more and strive to be the best version of Valerie I can be. I encourage you all to do the same my readers.
Im getting to know me better.
I’m Getting Back To Me!!
-As Told By Val